It is a violation to share any content from this group. If you screenshot, or share any content from this group, including private messages that pertain to any content from this group, you will be removed and permanently banned from this community. It is very important that member privacy is respected at all times.


It is important to be kind and respectful with all members of this community. Disagreements are a part of the human experience, however, almost any message can be delivered with kindness, respect and/or empathy. If you don’t have something nice to say, don’t say anything at all.

#3.1 – POSTING DO’s

Posting to the group raises the awareness to your presence. Participating in the conversation, and responding to others is a great way for other members to know you are here. Showing kindness and welcoming new members is also a great way to spotlight yourself. Feel free to post photos and videos that give us insight into you and your personality, but aside from beach photos, please keep on all your clothes. (Smile)


Posting outside content is a violation of this community’s guidelines. Outside content includes, but is not limited to: Memes, TikToks, Word Porn, or any other type of content that you didn’t design and/or produce yourself.


is important that you remember this group is comprised of different ages, races, genders, backgrounds and experiences. Freedom of speech is legally permitted, but conversations in this group require decency and consideration and decorum as well. You are more than welcome to participate and share your honest points of view, but you are not allowed to use profanity, racial terms, or derogatory language to do so.


You must have a clearly visible profile photo. Anonymous members are not allowed.


Promotions are not allowed in this group. It is a violation to promote products, or services in this group. Event promotions are allowed only with approval from the moderation team. Violating this rule could result in being removed from the group. Matchmakers and dating coaches may be allowed limited promotion for specific content that may serve the members of the group, but the promotion of products or services will not be allowed. More information about products and services can be found on the companion website.


The promotion or proliferation of politics or religion is not allowed in this group. The mention of politics and/or religion may be appropriate in the context of certain conversations, and it is also admissible as a personal descriptor. In this group we seek to serve everyone equally regardless of sex, gender, race, creed, religion or political affiliation.

The moderators of this group reserve the right to remove any posts that don’t follow these guidelines. Posts can/will be removed at moderators discretion. This group is intended to be a safe and positive environment with the intent to build and promote connections among eligible men and women. Any posts that don’t coincide with those ideals are subject to removal. Repeat offenders will be removed and banned from the group.


We will work hard to make sure every member in this group is an eligible man or woman. We will also work hard to allow only members within a 100mi radius of Raleigh, NC. Although it is not mandatory, please set your relationship status and your current location. Make it easy for members in this group to know where you are and if you are Single, Separated, Widowed, or Divorced.


It is not okay to post events in this group without prior approval from the administrator.


– Shirtless photos are not permitted.
– Sexually suggestive content is not permitted
– Profanity is a violation of the KINDNESS and RESPECT Rule #2
– Red-flag violations will be immediately removed from the group
– Yellow-flag violations may get up to 3 warnings before being removed from the group

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